Thursday, December 24, 2009

burden

My female owner wonders what it means for a friendship when one person finds that he does do things just to avoid conflict, as an obligation or worse, out of fear. All relationships require sacrifice. What happens when the giving becomes a burden and not out of the willingness of one’s heart. It’s akin to staying in a (dying) romantic relationship so that the partner would be not devastated or because you feel indebted to the partner for the nice things he had previously done. Staying on for sentimental memories? How healthy is that?

What depressing thoughts she has, on Christmas Eve.

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My siblings and I

My siblings and I
From top left: Dodo, Dona, me (Nooki) and Nanook