two-way

In praying for my male owner this morning, my female owner realised that he was probably hurting/ hurt from her actions, words and even, non-actions. It's one of the first times she stepped back from the whole situation and took on his perspective. So she decided to stop focusing on what a **** (fill in the blank, coz I don't know what to write here) he was to her, coz she was probably as **** to him and to focus on praying for healing.